July 4

Is First Date Romance

You should never get romantic on your first date as this is just to get to know someone. You will know if you like them in less than a minute, but that is still not enough time to start-up a romantic rendezvous. Starting a relationship too soon can lead to heart-break and resentment.

You don’t know this guy, what his interests are, or anything about his life or where he comes from. If he’s a shy guy and you make the first move, he will wonder if you’re a pick-up or act like this with any guy that comes your way.

Stay within your boundaries and don’t go too far with this guy. He might be a pervert without you knowing it and if you try to get romantic, he could take advantage of you and get over-bearing. It takes time to get to know someone really well.

You will learn his likes, dislikes, if he has respect for other people, what he does for a living, and how many kids he has if any. You will know if he has a temper, what his favorite food is, favorite color, favorite songs and movies.

Never start a romantic relationship until you know these things. If you do, you will end up with a broken heart. If he turns out to be someone you don’t want to be with, then you can walk away and move on to the guy who will treat you right.

There are a few couples who fell in love at first sight, but it is rare. They have a solid marriage and have been together for years, but the percentages are very low. You need to research a good dating site that offers speed dating and singles events.

One that does background checks and screening on their members. You need a dating service who will help you with your profile, and who truly cares about you. You need to get matched up with someone compatible that’s looking for the same thing you are, a relationship.

Don’t get too close when talking to your date, he might think you’re trying to flirt and it makes a girl look cheap. Don’t wear sexy clothes or walk sexy as he might think you’re looking for more than just an innocent date. If he is looking for a relationship, then so should you. Your profile will match you up to the right guy. First date romance is a bad idea but later can be good and turn into a real true love.

If you are a Tampa single looking for a relationship, tired of the dating games, tired of online dating and/or tired of blind dates, let’s talk. My Tampa Dating is a dating site designed to incorporate personalized service with match making, singles events, speed dating, background checks and a staff that really cares about its members.




Posted July 4, 2016 by mimin in category "Dating