November 23

My Successful Dating Romance

I had frequently used famous dating website for two years. I had the chance to meet few people who I dated. At this time, I was not looking for a relationship — I had just gotten out of one. I was only looking for a good mutual friend. My son and I were moving 200 kilometer away, to try to change our lives. I just wanted to meet someone to show us around, hang around with, and have a friend in our new neighborhood.

Couldn’t stop talking

I started chatting with John before I moved.

Once we started talking we couldn’t stop. We found that we had so much behaviors and thoughts in common and I could not believe how we even thought the same things and same feelings about life and other things. We chatted every morning and night for eight weeks before we finally met in person. I took my sister and my son with me to the restaurant to meet him for the first time.

Once we met in person, we didn’t stop seeing each other, and we were together almost every day. We discovered that we had found love. Two months later we moved in together, and one year later we were married. August 24, 2008, was our wedding date. We wrote special thanks to dating site. We had a beautiful day, and all our friends and family were there. I want to thank you, dating site for making my best life and for helping me to meet my best soul mate, and life partner.

Success tips from Chuva:

Don’t give out personal information. When you find someone you are interested in, make your first meeting in a public place. Have someone else with you or let someone know where you will be, and call them before and after the meeting. I never had any bad luck, but we all know there are not so good people out there. Caution is best!

Talk for a while before you plan to meet, don’t be in a hurry. Really try to get to know someone through chatting. You can find out a lot about a person.

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November 19

How To Be Romantic With Your Wife

What does it take to be more romantic? Well some people would say that they just aren’t the romantic type. They actually think that some people are just naturally more romantically inclined than others. I disagree, I think that romance is something that can be learned by anyone and it is a key to having a healthy relationship.

So what are some things that you can do today to be a more romantic partner? I am sure you have seen stuff like this before so I am going to try to make it a little more exciting. Here are three ideas you can put into practice tonight to totally change the tone of things in your relationship. When you do this though, watch out. Your partner will wonder what happened to you, lol.

Tip #1 go to the store and buy three or four inexpensive, pretty wooden boxes. You could also buy the glass or ceramic type to mix it up a little bit. Take colorful construction paper and write a short love note to your partner. Use different colored pens and put a little cologne or perfume on it (just a bit).

If you are not good at writing then use a line or two from a poem. You can find a billion of these things online by just using Google. Give a box to your loved one each morning and tell them to open it at work or while they are away. Tell them the message inside is to remind them you are always with them.

Tip #2 take a check out of your check book and write it for the amount of “One Hundred Kisses” made payable to your partner and signed by you. Leave it on the dash of their car or on the kitchen counter. Some place you are sure they will see it.

Tip #3 the next time you get your hair cut ask the barber to cut a small lock of your hair and save it. Buy a keychain, locket or another small repository and put the lock inside. Give this to them as a symbol of your love that goes with them everywhere they are.

These are just some simple, yet effective ways you can learn to be more romantic. You don’t have to do exactly what I have talked about here. All you have to do is just be creative and be yourself. There is no substitute for you. After all it is your personality that your partner fell in love with in the first place. Let that shine as it did when you were first dating and you will see new sparks fly in your love life like never before.

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November 18

Tips For Women And Men That Will Make Your Partner Fall In Love

Want a way to be incredibly romantic this Christmas season? I have a tip for you tonight that I didn’t come up with. My wonderful girlfriend did and I am going to share it with the world. You know that I often talk on my blog about putting the thoughts of others above yourself. That is really the key to romance and happiness in life in general. Tonight I have seen this method exemplified by my wonderful lady.

We have all heard the song the “Twelve Days Of Christmas”, probably ad nauseam. Well tonight before I left my girl’s place she handed me a stack of colorful cards wrapped in a ribbon. Each was decorated and had a date on it. You see tomorrow begins the first day of Christmas. I will have a card to open each day all the way until Christmas morning. I joked that I was going to rush home and read them all. Nothing could be further from the truth. I am excited about having a special surprise from my darling waiting on me each morning.

Now you would think guys wouldn’t really get into that, but you would be wrong. I am telling you I am smiling all over right now not only that she took the time to do this, but that each morning I will have a message of her love delivered to me. This is great way to show a person you care. Whether they are a man or a woman this works. I am flabbergasted.

Now what if you are reading this article and it is past Christmas, have you missed the chance. Well yes and no. If it is too late I would encourage you to do two things. For one plan on doing this next year and make each day special. I plan on posting a little piece about each day of the twelve days on my blog. Secondly, you don’t just have to do this on Christmas. You can make any occasion your excuse to do this. Do the ten days before their birthday. Try this method when you leave town, give them a card for each day you are going to be gone. The possibilities are really endless.

Now don’t just sign the card and put it in the envelope, that is lame. Instead really pour your heart into this. If you aren’t a good writer then go to Google and type in “romantic quotes or poems” and you will get lots of ideas of things you can say to your beloved. The bottom line is just don’t make an excuse, do it and you will see how wonderful it feels to give and receive such a wonderful romantic gift.

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October 16

Office Romance Tips

Most people spend more time in the work place than at home. Because of the time constraint that most professionals have and also the lack of sociable time, many people divert to the aspect of getting a romantic partner in the office instead of elsewhere

The workplace seems to become a natural breeding ground for romantic couples since they spend so much time there. It also seems pretty inevitable since most get along with each other well based on the fact that they are in the same environment that initiates similar interests, beliefs, and backgrounds.

Some companies however do not like the idea as they feel intimate relationships may cause negligence on their respective jobs and also when it comes to duties and responsibilities with each other

Here are some helpful tips:

1. Think first and be 100% sure

Really think things through before making a move and think about the consequences as well as benefits that you can get from the relationship. If things don’t work out would you be OK with seeing this person day in and day out?

2. Evaluate each prospect

Make sure you think they would make a good partner and do not get blinded by his or her position in the company and the excitement of feeling a bit naughty.

4. Friendships are the best foundation

First of all become good friends before creating a great a romantic relationship as this really is the core foundation to anything more lasting. Having said all this, office romances can be really dreamy and exciting. I wish you luck and if you can see yourself having a great relationship out of the work place then just go for it!

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October 15

Pure Romance Tips For Doing Things Together

Pure Romance is not just about the candlelight dinners and fine wine. It’s not just flower petals on the floor leading to the bedroom. It’s also more than sending love notes in emails or leaving sweet messages for each other to find in unexpected places. True Romance is about how two people in a relationship spend time with each other everyday in everything that they do.

To have a romantic relationship, it helps to have a love compatibility. (Think of that before getting too serious with someone). We must have mutual desires or at least be willing to compromise in order to please each other in the things that we do together. In fact, having the desire and willingness to do things together on a regular basis will partially answer the question, “What is love?” for a lot of people.

Pure romance for my wife and I is determined in large part by the many things that we do together each day – or at various times throughout the weeks and months of the year.

Examples That Don’t Cost Money (or much)

When you are at home, don’t ignore each other. That’s where pure romance begins. Going on dates isn’t the only time that couples are supposed to be with each other. Whether you are married or not, there are things to do together when you are at home. Doing so is a show of respect to your lover and makes him or her feel valued.

Here are some of the things that my fantastic wife and I do together at home. A big one for us is watching TV or movies. We probably watch at least one movie together each day. We eat together everyday – either at the table or in our bed. We pray and read the Bible together (not as much as we should). We even built a website together where we share the story of how we met online and entered into a long distance relationship.

Outside the home, we go to church together and take walks or hikes (mainly when the weather is 50+ degrees). Recently, we began to volunteer together at a Food Bank. We have also gone swimming at the beach or swimming pools – usually with her children or mine.

Those are just some of the free or low-cost things that my wife and I have done to help keep our pure romance alive. Do some of these and make up your own “together time” things for you and your lover.

Examples That Cost Money

One of the things that I promised to do with my wife, Jamie every two weeks is meet her for lunch when she’s at work. I’ve been laid off so my schedule has been flexible that way. We enjoy about an hour together – sometimes at the Magic Fountain by the company she works at. A couple of our other lunch spots are TGIF and Applebee’s. Dining out is also one of our favorite activities to do anytime. If you asked either one of us what our favorite restaurant is, we would both say “Red Lobster”. We go there for almost all special occasions – and sometimes just for the heck of it. We’ve been to some others more than once too, but we love variety and have dined at quite a lot of different places in the 2 ½ years that we’ve been together (we met online in 2008).

Guys, be nice to your girlfriend, fiance, or wife and go shopping with her. You are showing her respect by your willingness to just be with her – even it’s not your first choice of entertainment. Jamie and I go grocery shopping together every other week. My wife loves that I go with her. We have also gone together to flea markets, malls or where ever. Even if you are not a man who likes to shop, show your lover that you are willing to just be with her if that’s what she wants to do.

There are many other activities my wife and I do so that our own pure romance doesn’t fizzle out. We enjoy going bowling (Jamie always kicks my butt). Going to the Movie Theater is another one of our favorites. We’ve also been miniature golfing and gone to amusement parks and museums.

Another great thing to do is go on day trips. If my wife and I are in my State of PA, we might create memories in Gettysburg (also my kids’ favorite) or Baltimore. When we are on my wife’s home turf in Jersey, we take the train to New York City. We’ve had a lot of great times there (walks in Battery Park or Central Park, Wax Museum, King Tut Museum, Phantom of the Opera on Broadway, New York Philharmonic, dining, etc.). And of course we’ve hit the beaches on the Jersey Shore.

Don’t lose that pure romance you first felt when you met. Love and passion aren’t just kept alive by your sweet words and mutual touch. Keeping your romance alive is dependent on everything you do with each other everyday. Let’s all spend consistent time with our partners – in the home and out.

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October 15

Effective Flirting That Works

Do you need dating and flirting tips that will land you in a solid relationship? Are you tired of living your life alone and you want to be able to share the joys in life with a good man? Would dating and flirting tips give you the edge over other women who are struggling on the dating front?

Many women go out there without a clue how the dating scene can be these days. Either they’re tied up in some old fashion notion of what dating once was or they’ve been misled by the over-romanticized movies depicting dating as a fairy tale.

Read these dating and flirting tips and watch how your love life takes a turn for the better.

Lose the Desperation

This is the first and most important dating and flirting tip of all. No matter what you do, and no matter how badly you want to be in a relationship, do not let on that you are desperate. This is something that guys see from a distance and run.

Whether it’s in the lovelorn way you look at him, the words of need and insecurity you throw at him, or the clinging and possessive way you latch onto him, you need to get a hold of yourself and control the actions you take.

Fun and Elusive

There’s nothing like spending an interesting hour talking to a fascinating woman only to have her casually say goodbye and walk away at the end of it all. This really gets a guy riled up. His interest is instantly piqued by her ability to just stroll away from a potentially hot romance. She has just upped his game.

The pursuit is on and he’s biting at the bit to get to her. Be fun and engaging. Laugh and show the guy that you’re out to enjoy yourself. Make no mention of romance, relationships and, heaven forbid, marriage. Then, with no strings tied, simply excuse yourself and back out.

Be sure to leave the door ajar, not flat out open, for his eventual attempt to reconnect with you.

Never Pressed for Time

A hurried and impatient woman on the look out for the ideal husband is usually the woman who remains alone a lot longer than she would have liked. Her impatience can lead her to actually push many men away.

The more men walk away, the more pressed for time she becomes and the horrible game gets played over and over again.

Let the guy take his sweet time to get to know you. Let him see that you’re a woman with a mind and a life of your own. Let him know that his life won’t be bogged down with your needs and insecurities.

All in all, let him feel that he can take this relationship at his own pace. It may be slower than what you would have preferred, but you’ll be surprised how far you’ll go. Show him your sincere desire to build this relationship up in a healthy way.

Dating and flirting tips are meant to bring you to that great eventuality. Take heed and you’ll find your love.

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October 14

How to Be Forever in Love, Romance Tips For Married Couples

It is common for anyone to feel a little worried that the romance in their marriage is fading. This is especially true if you have been married for quite some time now. So what can you do to get the romance back into your marriage? Rest assured there are actually plenty of little things you can do today to strike up that spark again.

Spice up your sex life

This is one area most married couple pays less attention to. Sex usually takes a back seat especially when there are plenty of everyday things that need your attention. Take time to have a passionate lovemaking session with your spouse before it fades away and becomes too late to revive. Put real effort by talking openly with your spouse about what turns you on and your sexual desires. Learn new love-making ideas and techniques. It will be enough to get your desires running again.

Do not be selfish by giving more

If you invest in your marriage, you generally will get more out of it. Express your love and devotion to your spouse freely. You will be surprise it can set off a cycle of giving-back between you and your spouse that will be difficult to hold back. Do take note though. Every person is different. Your spouse may not be as expressive as you are, so make sure you do not feel resentment if you do not get as much in return as you give.

Schedule a regular date night

This is common advice. It will be great to go out without the kids. Going to a fancy restaurant can be daunting if you are on a budget. However, if you focus on that, you will never have the money or the time. This is the time to use your imagination. Send the kids away for the weekend. You and your spouse spend the afternoon together preparing a gourmet dinner. Join a dance class, go for an evening walk together or just sitting at a park talking.

Take time to talk and do it from the heart

Do you feel that you and your spouse are talking less to each other? Suddenly, you cannot think of anything to say. You realized that talking and confiding to your spouse becomes very difficult. Remember that the foundation of a strong marriage is emotional intimacy. You must have frequent and open conversations with your spouse on things that really matters to the marriage and the family.

Do not take your spouse for granted

Familiarity breeds contempt. When a couple gets to familiar with each other, they tend to take their spouse for granted. We forget our attitude and manners. Not only do we take our spouse for granted but we become more critical towards them and are constantly nagging. We develop a few bad habits over time. Take time off regularly to look at your current situation and the way you are treating your spouse. Get rid of your bad habits that can kill your romance and your marriage.

If your sixth sense is telling you that the romance in your marriage is slowly fading, then it is time to take action and do something right now. A dull marriage can be the starting point to more serious marital problems. It can happen so quickly that you might not be able to react on time. Take action now before the romance and love is gone and you end up alone.

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October 13

Romance Tips For Any Stage of a Relationship

I have spent this week mostly thinking about romantic ideas because I owe that special someone in my life some serious pampering for doing me a huge favour. It got me wondering why I don’t try and put in the effort more often regardless of whether he does something for me or not. My head is now bubbling with some good ideas and topped off with a bit of research I have done, I had to share these with you. I couldn’t very well keep them to myself know could I, knowing that we all need a bit of romance in our lives.

Romantic Ideas:

  • Surprise someone special with a stylish photo frame already inserted with a photo of yourself or a photo of the two of you together.
  • Go through their DVD collection and get them something they do not already have, but that you know they will enjoy. It will last longer than flowers.
  • Leave little love messages or hearts drawn on the bathroom mirror while it is steamed up after your shower or bath for them to find when they go in after you.
  • Plan a holiday or mini-break and do not tell them where you are taking them. Let them find out when they get there or when the airport or train station departures announce it.
  • Get up early one morning and surprise them with a cooked breakfast either in bed or set the dining room table and turn it into a romantic breakfast with orange juice and champagne.

Unique Ideas to Really Impress Them:

  • If you are a man then you can send your special lady 11 Red Roses with 1 white one among them. Insert a message inside the card that usually accompanies the flowers with this sentiment “In every bunch there is always one that stands out, and for me…that one was you“.
  • If you are a woman you could buy your man something small like a pair of cufflinks and insert them into a packet of crisps or something else you might like to give him along with a beer and tell him to relax while he watches his favourite sport.
  • Book a double pampering session for the two of you at a nearby spa and then make a day of it by taking them out for a meal at a restaurant you know will serve their favourite food.
  • Set a treasure hunt trail for them leading them to a romantic picnic or something equally as sweet. Make the trail fun and interesting and the longer you keep them looking for clues that lead them to you, the better the surprise will be.
  • Mixed tapes may seem old fashioned these days (mostly because tapes are almost none existent now), but putting together a CD of their favourite music for them to listen to in the car or wherever they like will have you in the good books for a long time.

While some of these ideas may not be the best for a first date or if you have only been together for a few weeks, mostly all of them will go down well if you have known each other for at least a couple of months. Even if you have been together for many years already, romance should not be forgotten and putting these ideas into practise will help bring the sparks back.

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September 12

Online Dating

Online dating has been around for a decade or so and everyone who peruses the internet has heard about it. Just about everyone who is single has either tried or contemplated trying an online dating service at some time or another. Some who have been willing to try online dating have experienced success, fallen in love and even gotten married to the person they met using an internet dating service. Yet, others have horror stories to tell about the person(s) they met online and/or later in person. Others become frustrated because they can’t seem to find the right person and give up Those who have had unfortunate experiences have nothing but content for online dating.

When you really stop to think about, online dating is really pretty much the same as any other form of meeting someone new. Whether you meet someone online or in a supermarket, you strike up a conversation, decide if the person is an intellectual fit, decide whether or not you’re attracted to him/or and then decide if you want to further the relationship based on the information you’ve seen and heard thus far. It doesn’t really matter how you meet new people because the simple fact of the matter is that you can have both good and bad experiences in any venue while seeking romance. Where you meet them is irrelevant.

The major difference online, is that all of the initial communication is done from the safety of your keyboard. By joining an online dating community you get the opportunity to shop for people. You browse photos, read profiles, communicate in forums, chat rooms, instant messages and send and receive e-mails. With online dating you are afforded a great deal of information gathering resources to help you determine who may be compatible for you. You can move at your own pace and initiate contact when you are ready. There is no pressure. If someone does attempt to pressure you, you have the option of “blocking” that person or reporting him/her to the webmaster.

Conversely, when you join a dating site and present yourself for others to view, you are in essence advertising yourself. You’re letting potential dates know that you are available and through your profile, you can set the criteria in which only those who closely qualify should contact you. You reserve the option to respond to or ignore inquires- however to show respect you should always at least tell the incompatible person that you are not interested.

The bottom line is that online dating is an excellent way to meet new people. Whether your intentions are to find romance, marriage, friendship, flirt or just chat you will find others who share similar interests. As with any other form of meeting and dating, there can be downsides. The following pointers will help you avoid troubled dates and help to enhance your online dating adventures.

LOOK YOUR BEST!

When you create your profile you should definitely submit your very best photo. If you are serious about meeting someone a photo is a must. You are 10 times more likely to be contacted if your profile shows your photo. Think about it. When you are searching for dates, you probably are more likely to ignore the profiles that don’t contain a photo. Photographs are first impressions. No different than meeting someone new in person, you instantly decide if you are attracted to them based on appearance. It’s just human nature. Avoid the temptation of submitting a photo that isn’t really you. One of the faults to online dating is that it is easy to hide behind a fake personal photo and misrepresent yourself. Doing so expresses dishonesty and insincerity.

It is important to be yourself when it comes to your photo. None of us can help the way we look. Don’t overly concern yourself with your appearance. We all have issues with some part of our body that we wish looked better. Don’t worry about the ones that place too much emphasis on physical appearance. You have to trust that there is someone out there that does find you attractive –and interesting– and does want to meet you.

Just remember that a photo is worth a thousand words. It’s important for online daters to have a visual image of the person that they are communicating with while deciding whether or not to meet in person. If you misrepresent yourself, chances are, the date is over before it even started.

EXPRESS YOURSELF

Creating a profile is your opportunity to tell those who would be interested in you just who you are and what you are and what you are looking for. Keep it fresh and upbeat. There’s also nothing wrong with updating your profile on a regular basis to tell others about recent events in your life. Utilize blogs and forums to keep potential dates informed of what’s on your mind. You will no doubt receive replies. Following up on those replies is an excellent way to communicate and form relationships.

The importance of a photo cannot be stressed enough, but does a photo really tell others who you are? Of course not. A photo submitted on a profile is usually a head and shoulders shot or some type of action photo — ‘walking along the beach’, ‘hanging out with your best friend’, etc.. Although those visual images are great, they do little to communicate your personality. The serious online dater is involved in his/her profile and spends a great deal of time expressing themselves in the vast features that most online sites offer.

Would you rather read a profile/blog that is mundane and standard or would you rather read about something that is real, maybe funny, maybe serious that you can relate to? Have a bad day? You’re probably not alone –post it in your blog. Something unusual or interesting happen recently? Many potential dates may have had similar experiences which can lead to great conversational topics. Break out of your shell! Don’t be afraid to let the real you come out.

BE CAREFUL WITH E-MAILS

E-mail is a great feature to use to communicate with potential partners but be careful not to spend too much time using e-mails. Don’t spend a long period of time sending e-mails back and forth. Within a few e-mails you should be able to obtain enough information about the other person as to whether or not you should take it to the next level and speak on the phone or even meet. Eliminating those who are not compatible with you quickly is the key to online dating and safety.

DISCUSS VALUES AND EXPECTATIONS

Early in your contact with a potential partner, you should make it a point to discuss several values that are important to you such as religion. Your values and expectations must be communicated clearly and as soon as possible. Expressing your values and expectations early will help to eliminate the potential for a bad incompatible, relationship. For example, if your intention is for a short term sexual relationship only, it is important that your date understands that. If your would be date were uncomfortable with those terms then you do best to move on and find a like-minded person. Failure to discuss values and expectations is a major reason why dates fail.

LISTEN

While communicating with people, listen carefully to what they say and how they say. Unfortunately, there are many people out there that will say and do whatever it takes to impress you. If that is the case, then you are not really getting to know the real them. Listen to the spoken word and if you are meeting in person, pay careful attention to body language. A person’s body language can tell you a great deal about them. You need to constantly evaluate what is said or written to protect yourself from being duped. The better the listener you are, the better you will be at identifying good dates and eliminating bad ones.

BE NICE

It’s hard to be in a good mood all the time and no one expects you to. However, you shouldn’t take it out on someone who is trying to contact you. Whether it’s an e-mail or something someone said to you in a chat room or forum, you should understand that everyone on the dating site is merely looking around and expressing themselves. In the case of e-mails for example, it only takes a couple of seconds to reply and say that you are not interested. You’ll gain more respect from the sender than if you just completely ignore and delete the e-mail. Being nice is contagious. If you convey politeness and consideration then you will receive the same. In turn, the person that you shed politeness towards will be more likely to be nice to the next person he or she comes in contact with.

WARNING SIGNS

To avoid unpleasant experiences with someone who has been less than honest with you, the following warning signs have been identified. Always apply the warning signs while dating to ensure that you are not wasting your time.

* If the word and references to “sex” is routinely used early during communication. If that is what you are looking for, then online dating has definitely worked for you. Else, you should probably not pursue that person, as most likely the person only is seeking a one-nighter.

* Watch out for those who only give out a cell phone number. That could be an indication that the person does not want you to call his/her home because he or she is already involved in a relationship. It could also simply mean that the person doesn’t own a landline. You’ll have to evaluate which one is probably true based on your interaction with the person.

* Someone who constantly talks about his or her divorce or ex-boyfriend/girlfriend. Don’t waste your time with this person. This person is still emotionally attached to a prior relationship. This person seeks to find someone else to fill a void in their life. This person needs to resolve his or her personal issues before they can become serious with someone else.

* Coming on too strong–Avoid those who are obviously overzealous. Those types of people include those who constantly send you e-mails and call your phone many times a day. It’s great to be eager but there is a fine line between eager and obsessive. Obsessive relationships are very unhealthy and usually fail.

* Avoid the serial dater. The serial dater is the person who seems much more interested in the concept of finding that special someone. The serial daters meets a lot of people and is constantly online searching for new people to date. The serial dater really isn’t interested in finding someone and getting on with a normal relationship. During your conversation with someone and they happen to confide in you that they’ve been dating online for 6 years (example), you should proceed with caution. Most likely the serial dater will become bored with you and move on.

USE YOUR COMMON SENSE

Using your common sense is your number one resource to protecting yourself and getting more out of your online dating experiences and any other form of dating for that matter. Be smart, cautious and trust your ‘gut’ instincts.

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September 11

Top 7 Romance Tips For Men

Women who are in relationships share one primary desire, they all want to be romanced. Many men are willing to give romance a shot. But, they may think that romance requires a lot of work. Well, you may be surprised to find that romance does not have to be complicated. Here are seven romance tips for men that are fairly easy to implement. Try these romance tips for men, and you can please your partner, while adding a bit of spice to your relationship.

“Online Dating”

Kiss her very slowly. There is something very sensual about kissing slowly. Take your time and give her a kiss that she will not soon forget. Tap her on her backside once in a while. This shows that you are still into her. It gives her a sense of security about her relationship with you, and lets her know that you care about her.

Play romantic music. This one will score you some serious points. But the music cannot be lame. If you have some decent tunes on hand, go ahead and use them. If not, you may need to buy a few good titles.

Surprise your partner. Romance should be spontaneous whenever possible. Unexpected romantic acts are essentially what make romance so special. Buy her favorite treat, and put it in her mouth before bed. Grab a small bouquet of flowers, and give them to her. Let her know that you were thinking about her. Buy a nice bottle of wine to share with your partner. You get the idea.

Offer your undivided attention, whenever she is talking to you about something important. Most women want their men to be good communicators, which includes being able to listen. So giving her your complete attention goes a long way. When she is talking to you, make your partner feel that there is no one else in your universe. Get close, look into her eyes, and listen intently to whatever she has to say. Do not drift in and out of the conversation. Focus your thoughts on her, stay there, and show that you are paying attention.

Take a shower or bubble bath together. You may not be into this type of thing. But water can add a sense of sensuality and romance. Take time to touch her body, and enjoy a nice, relaxing moment with your partner.

Order some takeout, or cook a nice dinner. Having a man take care of dinner is romantic, and usually appreciated. If you are feeling up to it, light a candle and put a few pillows on the living room floor to change the atmosphere.

There you have it. Try a few of these romance tips for men to spice up your relationship. Do not go overboard and try them all at once. Romance your partner once in a while, and she will love you for it.

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