I had frequently used famous dating website for two years. I had the chance to meet few people who I dated. At this time, I was not looking for a relationship — I had just gotten out of one. I was only looking for a good mutual friend. My son and I were moving 200 kilometer away, to try to change our lives. I just wanted to meet someone to show us around, hang around with, and have a friend in our new neighborhood.
Couldn’t stop talking
I started chatting with John before I moved.
Once we started talking we couldn’t stop. We found that we had so much behaviors and thoughts in common and I could not believe how we even thought the same things and same feelings about life and other things. We chatted every morning and night for eight weeks before we finally met in person. I took my sister and my son with me to the restaurant to meet him for the first time.
Once we met in person, we didn’t stop seeing each other, and we were together almost every day. We discovered that we had found love. Two months later we moved in together, and one year later we were married. August 24, 2008, was our wedding date. We wrote special thanks to dating site. We had a beautiful day, and all our friends and family were there. I want to thank you, dating site for making my best life and for helping me to meet my best soul mate, and life partner.
Success tips from Chuva:
Don’t give out personal information. When you find someone you are interested in, make your first meeting in a public place. Have someone else with you or let someone know where you will be, and call them before and after the meeting. I never had any bad luck, but we all know there are not so good people out there. Caution is best!
Talk for a while before you plan to meet, don’t be in a hurry. Really try to get to know someone through chatting. You can find out a lot about a person.
What does it take to be more romantic? Well some people would say that they just aren’t the romantic type. They actually think that some people are just naturally more romantically inclined than others. I disagree, I think that romance is something that can be learned by anyone and it is a key to having a healthy relationship.
So what are some things that you can do today to be a more romantic partner? I am sure you have seen stuff like this before so I am going to try to make it a little more exciting. Here are three ideas you can put into practice tonight to totally change the tone of things in your relationship. When you do this though, watch out. Your partner will wonder what happened to you, lol.
Tip #1 go to the store and buy three or four inexpensive, pretty wooden boxes. You could also buy the glass or ceramic type to mix it up a little bit. Take colorful construction paper and write a short love note to your partner. Use different colored pens and put a little cologne or perfume on it (just a bit).
If you are not good at writing then use a line or two from a poem. You can find a billion of these things online by just using Google. Give a box to your loved one each morning and tell them to open it at work or while they are away. Tell them the message inside is to remind them you are always with them.
Tip #2 take a check out of your check book and write it for the amount of “One Hundred Kisses” made payable to your partner and signed by you. Leave it on the dash of their car or on the kitchen counter. Some place you are sure they will see it.
Tip #3 the next time you get your hair cut ask the barber to cut a small lock of your hair and save it. Buy a keychain, locket or another small repository and put the lock inside. Give this to them as a symbol of your love that goes with them everywhere they are.
These are just some simple, yet effective ways you can learn to be more romantic. You don’t have to do exactly what I have talked about here. All you have to do is just be creative and be yourself. There is no substitute for you. After all it is your personality that your partner fell in love with in the first place. Let that shine as it did when you were first dating and you will see new sparks fly in your love life like never before.
Want a way to be incredibly romantic this Christmas season? I have a tip for you tonight that I didn’t come up with. My wonderful girlfriend did and I am going to share it with the world. You know that I often talk on my blog about putting the thoughts of others above yourself. That is really the key to romance and happiness in life in general. Tonight I have seen this method exemplified by my wonderful lady.
We have all heard the song the “Twelve Days Of Christmas”, probably ad nauseam. Well tonight before I left my girl’s place she handed me a stack of colorful cards wrapped in a ribbon. Each was decorated and had a date on it. You see tomorrow begins the first day of Christmas. I will have a card to open each day all the way until Christmas morning. I joked that I was going to rush home and read them all. Nothing could be further from the truth. I am excited about having a special surprise from my darling waiting on me each morning.
Now you would think guys wouldn’t really get into that, but you would be wrong. I am telling you I am smiling all over right now not only that she took the time to do this, but that each morning I will have a message of her love delivered to me. This is great way to show a person you care. Whether they are a man or a woman this works. I am flabbergasted.
Now what if you are reading this article and it is past Christmas, have you missed the chance. Well yes and no. If it is too late I would encourage you to do two things. For one plan on doing this next year and make each day special. I plan on posting a little piece about each day of the twelve days on my blog. Secondly, you don’t just have to do this on Christmas. You can make any occasion your excuse to do this. Do the ten days before their birthday. Try this method when you leave town, give them a card for each day you are going to be gone. The possibilities are really endless.
Now don’t just sign the card and put it in the envelope, that is lame. Instead really pour your heart into this. If you aren’t a good writer then go to Google and type in “romantic quotes or poems” and you will get lots of ideas of things you can say to your beloved. The bottom line is just don’t make an excuse, do it and you will see how wonderful it feels to give and receive such a wonderful romantic gift.